Here are more characteristics that many “abusers” share. I got these from the website ‘www.psychology.com‘, author unknown;
- They tend to be insecure. Low self-esteem is a common trait in abusers.
- Needy with an unrealistic expectations of the relationship
- Distrustful
- Lies often
- Jealous
- Needs to be “right” and in control
- Possessive
- History of aggression
- Can be cold and apathetic towards people, children and animals
- Blames their bad behavior on others
- Suffer from untreated mental health issues
- Have a “Jekyll” and “Hyde” personality
- Can be psychopathic, sociopathic or narcissistic
- Don’t respect boundaries- social or personal
- Don’t respect laws
- Sadistic personality (derives enjoyment from hurting others)
- Substance/alcohol abusers
- Selfish and self-centered